My ex-husband is a complete and total failure as a father, grownup, and all-around human being. He left my children with CATHERINE! all weekend, and she treated an ear infection with an EAR CANDLE. Aside from the fact that I now have a child who is utterly MISERABLE and A Situation on my hands vis a vie future weekend visitation given that I made my stance on flagrant violations of our custody order VERY PLAIN, that bullshit could have caused my kid serious injury. I? Am not. Amused. Also I have had to revise my assessment of CATHERINE! as "dumb to be with him, but sweet and most likely harmless" to "dumber than a fucking box of hammers, sweet, but potentially a danger." Balls!